In the past, women with poor-quality or scarce eggs would have had to accept that they’d never have a baby, or else start thinking about adoption.But these days there’s another increasingly popular option — egg donation.
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Grab the wheel and drive! 10 ways to take control of your adoption process
By Amanda Grant
It’s yours to control – don’t let anyone tell you otherwise
One of the most significant misperceptions about adoption is that it is a process over which you have no control. People considering adoption …
Hugh Jackman: Our Infertility Battle Was a ‘Difficult Time’
He may be one of the most doting dads in Hollywood, but thepath to parenthood was a difficult one for Hugh Jackman.
Before the actor and his wife Deborra-Lee Furness welcomed Oscar Maximillian, 12, and Ava Eliot, 7, through adoption, they fought a long battle with infertility, undergoing IVF treatments only to have the resulting pregnancies end in miscarriages.
“It is a difficult time. The miscarriage thing — apparently it happens to one in three pregnancies — but it’s very, very rarely talked about,” Jackman, 44, said during a Tuesday appearance on Katie.
“It’s almost secretive. But it’s a good thing to talk about. It’s more common and it’s tough, there’s a grieving process you have to go through.”
Now the adoring dad of a son and daughter, the Les Miserables star says adoption was never a last resort; It has always been a part of the couple’s parenting plans.
“To be clear, Deb and I always wanted to adopt,” he explains. “We didn’t know where in the process that would happen, but biologically, obviously, we tried and it was not happening for us.” Read full article.
Embryo Donation. The New Modern Family
Up until now, an accepted alternative pathway for couples to build a family has been the adoption process. But with recent advances in reproductive medicine, building a family through embryo donation is something newer that has made …
Finding A Child Online: How The Web Is Transforming Adoption
When Eric James and his partner, Zerxes Spencer, decided to adopt last year, they signed on with Adoptions Together, a reputable agency close to their home in Maryland. They attended the agency’s seminars to learn about the process, met other “waiting parents” and formed personal bonds with the staff. But there was just one problem.
“When we entered the pool, we were looking at generally a two- to three-year wait,” says James. “And about six months in they reached out to let us know the wait actually would be probably much longer than that.”
Why? He was told that many pregnant women are bypassing agencies and seeking prospective parents across the country through the Internet.
In fact, a new study that’s among the first of its kind finds that the Internet is transforming adoption by opening up the way would-be parents and birth mothers find each other. Some welcome the shift, although the report also suggests it raises ethical concerns.
James’ predicament shows how even people who don’t intend to can find themselves using the Internet for adoption. To speed up their search, his agency advised him and Spencer to get online. Read full article.
So What About Dad? Creating Space for Birth Fathers in Adoption Stories
By Jeannine Zoppi, Ph.D.
Birth fathers, even if unknown, influence the lives of adopted children. However, birth fathers are rarely considered important in adoption stories. In the absence of factual information, adoptees …
Adoption Can Boost Quality of Life for Infertile Couples Study Finds
MONDAY, Nov. 19 (HealthDay News) — Couples who adopt children after unsuccessful treatment for fertility problems typically have a high quality of life, a new study finds.
Swedish researchers compared outcomes for a variety of types of couples: those whose in-vitro fertilization (IVF) treatment failed; those whose IVF treatment resulted in children; couples who decided to adopt after unsuccessful IVF treatment; and couples with no fertility problems.
The couples who underwent IVF treatment were assessed five years after their treatment. Quality of life among the more than 970 men and women was measured as psychological well-being and a feeling of connection.
Quality of life was highest among couples who adopted children after unsuccessful IVF treatment and lowest among couples who remained childless after their IVF treatment had failed, the investigators found. Read full article.
Adoption: The Power of Support
It has been over twenty years since I set out to adopt a child. One thing that hasn’t changed since then is the importance of creating your own adoption support network.
With the right support you will come through the …
Ten Myths about Adoption
by Kathy Brodsky, L.C.S.W.
Adoption is an emotionally charged topic. Throw in some misinformation and a whopping dose of the stuff tabloids are made of and it’s hard to separate myth from fact. So sit back, get comfortable, and …
Issues to Consider Prior to Pursuit of International Adoption
By Leonette Boiarski, ACSW, LSW
So many times, I have taken calls from families who are dissatisfied with their adoption agencies. Often, this is caused by a lack of proper research on the part of hopeful parents when they are selecting …